Wednesday, June 30, 2010

More Recent Photos--3



This was me at a luau party which I hosted at my home in December 2001.--We had a "Christmas in Hawaii" theme! It was a family get-together for some local relatives.
[And my parties are fairly tame!] *** Anyway, you can't be miserable all the time, isn't that right!? [What was I supposed to do--wear "sackcloth and ashes" just because I was still on probation? No, I was doing the best I could--with everything--and I was entitled to do something special at a holiday if I wanted to! And, after all, it's not against the law to celebrate with your family, right??? It was my privilege to do so!]

More Recent Photos--2



This was me in 1999, as far as I recall.

More Recent Photos--1



This was a photo of me in the spring of 1998.

Another Childhood Photo



This photo shows both of my sisters and me. *******************************************************************************************

Added on July 18:
My parents never wanted to have a television in our home when us kids were growing up. At our first house, above, we had a 10-volume set of Bible story books with lots of colour pictures for children. Our parents told us the stories and they were interesting. We also had a set of Christian bedtime story books, which were modern stories about real life; and they were also interesting. Our dad also played the piano and our mom sang us Christian children's songs with finger actions. Some songs were adapted from English to our parents' language and we enjoyed them.

From the above stories and music, I believed in God--that He existed--and that it was worthwhile to follow Him. Our parents also took our family to church every week; and I learned about the "Judgment Day"--and heaven and hell. I didn't always understand or get the right answers about how things were supposed to work but I took the matter seriously! [Later in my life, I got better answers.]

One of the neighbour families had a little girl my age. She became my best friend, at the time, and she went to a Catholic school. We had lots of fun and we played with other children in the neighbourhood also.

My family wasn't perfect and both of our parents were usually working. My mother went to school first; and then she had various jobs over time. She used to spend time with me sometimes, and my dad also. [This was during the day, I mean.]

The way that I was born and raised during my early childhood was from a religious Christian view. I didn't know anything else. For Kindergarten and the first grade, I attended public school. It seemed to be a good school and there were no problems to speak of, that I recall.

[At home, some "sibling rivalry" began after I attended school. My next sister told me later that she missed me when I was away from home--I wasn't able to play with her as much. Have read that the way siblings get along is an indication of how well the parents get along with each other; and divorce usually sneaks up over a number of years--marriages break down gradually. I believe communication was a problem in our home.--My parents didn't communicate well enough with each other or with the children. There was also an age difference, where my mom was a little older than my dad. My parents did the best they knew how, as people do. And it's fine to be religious but daily life can sometimes be more complicated! (It's not that I mean to knock religion.)]

My Parents



This was a picture of my parents many, many years ago! It was their engagement photo. [They later separated and divorced; but they maintained a certain amount of friendship.]

My Son--3



This is an older photo of my son. He has since grown up to become a young adult.

My Son--2



This photo was taken at Niagara Falls. It's one of my favourites of my son when he was small.

My Son

Married Photos--5




This photo was taken at the cabin my husband had built for his occasional trapping work. [And believe it or not, things like trapping and hunting are sometimes helpful to the environment. A balance is needed in nature--it doesn't always happen on its own! (Especially not if wild animals are doing damage to people or their property--and hopefully people didn't build in the nesting areas of the animals!)] *** My husband is holding our son in the photo. *** My husband had also been working with Native youths; and he took them out fishing regularly and probably taught them something about trapping!?

Married Photos--4



Another photo from the church ceremony. [Do I owe credit to someone for the photography? There were different people snapping photos; and they gave me some.--I took a few also, or others took shots with my camera! It may have been my brother who took this photo? Anyway, I appreciate all the photos that were given to me!]

More Photos--And Writing--Later

Will add some more photos; and will also write a little, when I have a chance. [Haven't written much in this blog, so far, but I plan to do so.]

Married Photos--3



These were some candles from the church ceremony.

Married Photos--2



Here's another photo from the church ceremony. [It was actually in an old church at a pioneer village--a tourist site.]

Married Photos--1



My husband and I first got married by a Justice of the Peace. Then we had a church ceremony a little while later.

Teen Photos--4



This photo was taken in my late teens at the college I attended in England.

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Added on July 18:

When I was in England, I felt happy to be there and to meet people and to travel. But I wasn't really sure what I wanted to do with my life as far as a career went. My weight concerns got worse because then I was actually more successful with my dieting attempts--although I'd had some success earlier, after I'd gained some weight. And I brought my weight down too low without realizing it, over a period of time. I eventually got into binge eating, in between fasting periods--which can easily happen--and I had trouble coping with my daily life.--My second year in England was worse for the reasons stated; and I didn't complete my second semester classes. I went home a little early. [As I've been stating elsewhere, it took many years before I found the right treatment. But thankfully, I got help! (Some others haven't been as fortunate.)]

Teen Photos--3



This was from a special function in high school. [The high school I attended was also a Christian one.] *** Had never seen this photo myself until around 10 years ago when someone gave it to my sister at church! It was a fairly large place; and unfortunately, my sister couldn't remember who gave it to her! [Maybe she didn't know the person!?] Anyway, I really appreciated receiving it.--It was nice of someone to think of it! Thanks to the photographer also.

Teen Photos--2




Another photo from Grade 8 graduation. [Thank you to one of my friends for sharing the photo earlier. Also, thanks to the photographer--one of my classmates' parents!?]

Teen Photos--1




This was from my 8th-grade graduation. [Throughout most of elementary school, I attended a Christian school.]

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Added on July 18:
Have written in the first blog about issues which led to friendly teasing; and by the time I was 12 years old, I had convinced myself I needed to lose weight! It was the beginning of anorexia nervosa, whether or not it was a clinical problem at the time. [Later it got worse and there wasn't much information available, in those days. It took many years before I got the right treatment--and even then, treatment can be a long process!] My worries about weight and dieting attempts were off and on during my teen years. In the photo above, it was mostly a happy day; and I wasn't worried about too much! We had a nice graduation service and I enjoyed the experience. [My mom paid a neighbour lady who was a professional hairdresser to do my hair; and I appreciated it.]   NOTE, Added on May 5, 2023 It really wasn't "friendly teasing" considering the person was making negative comments about my weight...and especially when my weight was normal...!  This teasing had continued over several years, whenever the person saw me.

Childhood Photos--5




My parents didn't want to have a TV in our home when the kids were young; but my dad wanted me to take piano lessons! I enjoyed playing some children's songs.

Childhood Photos--4



This is my other sister and me. [It was taken while my parents were still in the process of renovating our house.]

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Added on July 18:
My mother told me we were moving to a different area so I could attend the church school there [it was run by our own church]. It seemed important to me, at the time! But as "Dr. Phil" says, if I may quote him, "People often do things for other reasons than what's apparent!" And my mom had other reasons for moving! But she did want me to attend a Christian school.

My parents did a lot to help me prepare to attend a new school.--They bought me a two-wheel bicycle and taught me to ride it.--The school was further from our home than the public school had been. And they bought me some children's picture books, as a gift. Plus, they had to pay extra for the school--it wasn't free. [And they had moved.] And then, within the first few days of school in the second grade, I had a bad experience with my teacher! The teacher may or may not have understood--maybe it wasn't intentional, on her part!? And I blamed myself--I thought it was my fault and that the teacher was blaming me. [As I said, she may or may not have intended to blame me for anything!?] Since I believed I was supposed to attend a Christian school and learn more about God, etc., it didn't occur to me that the school or teacher may have been at fault! My parents tried to help but they weren't able to solve the real problems. [I knew they tried.] And unfortunately, I had some bad feelings--mostly of self-blame--all through the rest of elementary school. But these kinds of things happen in life!

For a few years, I hardly tried to make any friends at the church school. I had been friendly at first; but after the negative experience, I gave up trying. And I had friends in my new neighbourhood.--I played with them.

In the fifth grade, a teacher helped me to adjust better and I became happier at school. [Have explained a lot more in the first blog and won't try to repeat it all here. Will write more in this second blog as I have time.]

Childhood Photos--3



My sister and I were about a year older in this photo.

Childhood Photos--2



My sister and me sitting at our dad's piano. [I'm the older one.]

Childhood Photos--I



In this photo, I was nearly 2 years old.