In the Links at the right, I added one for a mentor/friend. Some people might wonder what I was thinking--being in the circumstances I'm in--to refer to a public figure as a "friend"!??? And first of all, it depends on the definition of a friend? If a friend is someone who helps and encourages others, and adds value to their lives--and helps those in need, then this person is a friend. He's a motivational speaker; and he sells books and audio materials--and he also donates them for free to places like prisons and some charities, if I understand. In my case, I've been fortunate to use his materials free of charge from libraries [although I haven't had access to the very latest ones--yet--and some are on the Internet]. Second, this speaker has specifically stated he wanted to be a friend to others--the above kind of a friend.--And he has even said he's a "friend for life." So, can anyone beat that--or knock it down? His materials are always available; and it's up to me if I wish to make use of them--at any time. [He also recommended to make a personal "Success Journal," which I've done.] And I really appreciate the efforts he has made to be helpful to the public. *** Since I wasn't in circumstances to purchase all his materials, I followed his advice and example otherwise--to make use of help from other experts and motivational speakers, much of which is available in libraries. [Yes, there are cautions about "self-help" books and I'm aware of them. I've also had a lot of therapy in the past.] A person may not be able to prevent everything that life throws at them--accidentally or purposely--but they can do their best to stay on top of things! [And if life knocks you down, you try to get back up again!]
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